First Published in August Edition of Better Health from The Nation Publishing House
The physical health of women is a major concern worldwide as females are often more chronic sufferers of disease than their male counterparts. Be mindful however, that the body is not the only portion of themselves that a woman should ensure is healthy. Women need to be proactive in securing spirit, mind and body.
Spirit
- Get to know yourself – The foundation of all knowledge of self is the trait of self-awareness. Take time out to pray, meditate, write a journal to track your thoughts in order to learn more about you and what makes you tick. Find what you believe in to strengthen and develop your spiritual source whether it is in a god, Supreme Being etc or nothing at all. Just be very self-aware so that you are not easily led off the course of your chosen path.
- Know your worth – Your worth comes from the inside and not based on the opinion of others. It is not based on your job, how much money you make or earthly possessions. You need to whether it is vocally or in your mind tell yourself that you matter and learn to trust your instincts by following your heart.
- Treat yourself with respect – the woman in the Reggae on the Beach video, those in the skin-out videos and the girls in the popular Conduckta video are prime examples of how NOT to treat yourself with respect. You should know that treating yourself means you establish standards by which you carry yourself and how you allow others to interact with you. When you respect yourself you will be confident enough to place yourself where you can receive the best life has to offer. As a product of self-love, self respect hinders you from placing yourself in situations that can be humiliating and degrading. You know your worth and do not need to skin out or anything else to gain the approval of others.
Mind
- Stay true to yourself – resist the societal and familial pressure to become or act in a way that is not who you are at your core. Society often implies that you have to be a certain type of person in order to have any real achievements. But not being true to your inner calling can cause us to become confused, detached from reality and sometimes mentally unstable. To avoid these situations, develop values for yourself and your life and remain true to those. Create your own path for your life and follow that path never forgetting what motivates you.
- Pursue your purpose passionately – Find your dream, develop a plan for achieving that dream, and then pursue that purpose as passionately as humanly possible. This gives your life direction and perspective within your world thus keeping a clear and focused mind. Also develop your purpose and your mind by reading books and material that helps you learn how to be the best at your purpose and the best you possible.
- She finds a sound support system – This is family and friends who are willing to support her right or wrong. Supporting you does not mean that they encourage your silliness but they will pat you on the back when you deserve it but will gently let you know when you may be taking the wrong path, how to get on the correct one. Their support is unconditional therefore should you decide to ignore their advice, the reaction won’t be to throw their hands in the air and finish the relationship with you and them.
Body
- Nutrition – Take care to have a balanced diet that is high on nutritious value and low on fast foods and other items that can raise blood pressure, sugar and cholesterol levels. This means including fresh cuts of meat, fresh fruits and vegetables into your diet as much as possible and cutting down on the processed foods that can contain chemicals and other ingredients that are harmful.
- Active lifestyle – As life becomes more sedentary, we expose ourselves to more diseases of an inactive lifestyle such as diabetes and heart disease. Therefore, incorporate more activity such as exercise into your life. Go for walks on the beach or in your neighbourhood, take in a zumba or yoga class or even join a gym. This improves circulation, heart rate, mood among other health benefits and makes you physically and mentally fit.
- Being aware of changes in your body – Be aware of your own body and any changes, negative or positive, that it may be experiencing. It is essential to length and quality of life to catch any negative change in our body before it becomes life-threatening. This means you will do things like conduct monthly breast self-examinations, have regular treatments such as Reflexology or Reiki to align anything that may become imbalanced in your body and visit your medical doctor for annual medical check-ups.
These points are just the start of creating a happier, healthier you. As you grow in your self-awareness and connection to self, you will develop more ways to be proactive in taking care of your holistic health, that is bringing balance to your spirit, mind and body.